Growing up it seemed ‘white
lies’ were okay while lying was a sin. As children, we sometimes had difficulty
understanding where the line was. As we matured, we realized there most
definitely was a difference.
If a husband or wife asks if it
is okay to invite their parents over for dinner, the spouse would probably say
‘sure’ even if it wasn't 100% the truth. That was a ‘white lie’. If a young boy
dresses up as a monster on Halloween and asks his father if he looks ‘really
scary’, it was okay for his dad to say ‘YES’! That was a ‘white lie’.
In both cases, the person
telling the ‘white lie’ was saying what the other person wanted to hear. In
both cases, there was no harm in not telling the 100% truth. In both cases, it
was a ‘white lie’. However, if we are not telling the 100% truth in order to
save someone’s feelings AND IT HURTS THEM,
we are lying.
we are lying.
What does this have to
do with real estate?
We believe there are some in
the real estate industry more worried about a homeowner’s feelings than they
are about telling the truth about the current value of their home. These agents
are not necessarily malicious. They just realize they may disappoint a seller
at a listing appointment by telling the truth about what the house will sell
for. They find it difficult to deliver tough news. To make sellers feel better,
they lie.
Good agents can
deliver good news. Great agents know how to deliver tough news.
In today’s real estate market,
you need an agent that will tell you the truth, even when you don’t want to
hear it. You need an agent more worried about your family than they are
about your feelings. You need an agent who can get the house sold!
What this means to you
If you are interviewing
potential listing agents, demand they tell you the truth. Don’t hire the agent
that tells you what you want to hear. Hire the agent that tells you what you
need to know. Reward their honesty. - Written by KCM Crew
Want the Truth? Check out my testimonials about how INTEGRITY is #1 in my life!What my clients have to say...
Jodi "JoSal" Salazar
Lic.#01447892
www.homesbyjosal.com




